Love,Life, & Thoughts

I'm a woman of passion, great love and respect for humanity. I believe I am kind, I make good judgement about my self and the way I deal with life, I am independent, tough, well-bred and educated. I believe I am a leader of good influence, I believe in great conversation, I love speaking out my mind,
They said I work too often much but I love what I do, I give my all to what I believe is life, be it in my career or in love. I value people, people's ideas, interests, choices, and simple acts of respect matter a lot to me. I am a compulsive shopper for very few selected addictions, such as books and chocolates and coffee. Someday, I'm gonna have a library in my crammed apartment. I do always want to have a lot of chocolates in my fridge, I don't get much time to eat them though, I want to purchase all coffees of different historical legends someday. Well, that's all, so far, about me. I can go on and on, but this page might not accommodate all of my thoughts.
Here's an outline of some beautiful little bits of me:
* a passionate teacher
* a wisdom seeker
* i love to talk about love, life and laughter
* i believe in destiny
* i believe that everything happens for a reason
* i believe in forgiveness
* i am a devotee for peace
* i am a woman of worth
* i cry when i'm sad
* i laugh when i'm happy
* i'm real
* i'm one hell of a woman
* i believe in love
* i believe that blessings come with a price
* i believe that success needs passion and determination
* and i believe that success happens when opportunity meets preparation.
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The Chronicle of an Unhappy Relationship

1. You are broken-hearted, you hit the bar. You go there hoping you pick some
    interesting mate up.
2. You get back home elated by the thought of how amazingly you’ve met a
    perfect guy. You then thought, everything happened for a reason. Things
    end so better things can fall together. You suddenly thought Marilyn    
    Monroe has always been the Goddess of wisdom indeed.
3. You thought dating could be the best thing that could   
    ever happen to you soon.
4. You gave in and have had your next relationship.
5. Three months, that was all perfect. He thought exactly the same things you
     wanted, he did perfectly the things you’ve been wishing, he filled in the
     missing parts of your past relationship, he made you feel complete.
6. Everything seemed over-talked about. You unintentionally became quiet
    together. One day one of you noticed it.
7. He started to feel it’s boring staying with you. And met random friends
    instead.
8. You became impatient waiting. And arguing was the best option to get
    attention.
9. He thought arguing with you was constantly annoying. Walked out from
    the conversation often.
10. You’re left alone, crying in the corner of your bed. And saw your
     photographs on the bedside table, and made you hate him for
     uncountable reasons.
11. Nobody apologized.
12. Nobody initiates a conversation.
13. You broke the silence, opened it up with girl’s overused line, “I think it’s
     better if we go separate ways.” And although in your heart, you actually
     wished being pursued….
14. He gave in.
15. You’re heartbroken. Devastated, Alone again.
16. He’s upset for a moment…and have let go of the thought of it forever.
17. You saw each other again after a month.
18. You never felt anything strange.
19. He smiled at you, introduced his new girl, and you were okay.
20. Realized, you didn’t really love him. And you’re moving on.

I believe, the reason why most relationship ended shortly, is because in the very first place we kept chasing for love, we ended up with those not meant for us, we trapped ourselves into its hollow, thinking that’s what we all need, when we actually are only punishing ourselves everyday by unconsciously bearing the burden of it. And as long as it’s finally ended, that’s then we finally realize, it was not all worth it. That was not at all love. Yet again, there are times we find it difficult to move on…it only needs time though.
It’s not wrong to let go, and it’s not wrong to take risks in love too, what’s wrong is when you let yourself suffer about a wrong reason. That’s so mean. Let go when you need to. The pain is there but it’s not gonna be forever. Trust your heart to heal.

The Chronicle of an Unhappy Relationship

1. You are broken-hearted, you hit the bar. You go there hoping you pick some

    interesting mate up.

2. You get back home elated by the thought of how amazingly you’ve met a

    perfect guy. You then thought, everything happened for a reason. Things

    end so better things can fall together. You suddenly thought Marilyn    

    Monroe has always been the Goddess of wisdom indeed.

3. You thought dating could be the best thing that could   

    ever happen to you soon.

4. You gave in and have had your next relationship.

5. Three months, that was all perfect. He thought exactly the same things you

     wanted, he did perfectly the things you’ve been wishing, he filled in the

     missing parts of your past relationship, he made you feel complete.

6. Everything seemed over-talked about. You unintentionally became quiet

    together. One day one of you noticed it.

7. He started to feel it’s boring staying with you. And met random friends

    instead.

8. You became impatient waiting. And arguing was the best option to get

    attention.

9. He thought arguing with you was constantly annoying. Walked out from

    the conversation often.

10. You’re left alone, crying in the corner of your bed. And saw your

     photographs on the bedside table, and made you hate him for

     uncountable reasons.

11. Nobody apologized.

12. Nobody initiates a conversation.

13. You broke the silence, opened it up with girl’s overused line, “I think it’s

     better if we go separate ways.” And although in your heart, you actually

     wished being pursued….

14. He gave in.

15. You’re heartbroken. Devastated, Alone again.

16. He’s upset for a moment…and have let go of the thought of it forever.

17. You saw each other again after a month.

18. You never felt anything strange.

19. He smiled at you, introduced his new girl, and you were okay.

20. Realized, you didn’t really love him. And you’re moving on.

I believe, the reason why most relationship ended shortly, is because in the very first place we kept chasing for love, we ended up with those not meant for us, we trapped ourselves into its hollow, thinking that’s what we all need, when we actually are only punishing ourselves everyday by unconsciously bearing the burden of it. And as long as it’s finally ended, that’s then we finally realize, it was not all worth it. That was not at all love. Yet again, there are times we find it difficult to move on…it only needs time though.

It’s not wrong to let go, and it’s not wrong to take risks in love too, what’s wrong is when you let yourself suffer about a wrong reason. That’s so mean. Let go when you need to. The pain is there but it’s not gonna be forever. Trust your heart to heal.

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