The Chronicle of an Unhappy Relationship
1. You are broken-hearted, you hit the bar. You go there hoping you pick some
interesting mate up.
2. You get back home elated by the thought of how amazingly you’ve met a
perfect guy. You then thought, everything happened for a reason. Things
end so better things can fall together. You suddenly thought Marilyn
Monroe has always been the Goddess of wisdom indeed.
3. You thought dating could be the best thing that could
ever happen to you soon.
4. You gave in and have had your next relationship.
5. Three months, that was all perfect. He thought exactly the same things you
wanted, he did perfectly the things you’ve been wishing, he filled in the
missing parts of your past relationship, he made you feel complete.
6. Everything seemed over-talked about. You unintentionally became quiet
together. One day one of you noticed it.
7. He started to feel it’s boring staying with you. And met random friends
instead.
8. You became impatient waiting. And arguing was the best option to get
attention.
9. He thought arguing with you was constantly annoying. Walked out from
the conversation often.
10. You’re left alone, crying in the corner of your bed. And saw your
photographs on the bedside table, and made you hate him for
uncountable reasons.
11. Nobody apologized.
12. Nobody initiates a conversation.
13. You broke the silence, opened it up with girl’s overused line, “I think it’s
better if we go separate ways.” And although in your heart, you actually
wished being pursued….
14. He gave in.
15. You’re heartbroken. Devastated, Alone again.
16. He’s upset for a moment…and have let go of the thought of it forever.
17. You saw each other again after a month.
18. You never felt anything strange.
19. He smiled at you, introduced his new girl, and you were okay.
20. Realized, you didn’t really love him. And you’re moving on.
I believe, the reason why most relationship ended shortly, is because in the very first place we kept chasing for love, we ended up with those not meant for us, we trapped ourselves into its hollow, thinking that’s what we all need, when we actually are only punishing ourselves everyday by unconsciously bearing the burden of it. And as long as it’s finally ended, that’s then we finally realize, it was not all worth it. That was not at all love. Yet again, there are times we find it difficult to move on…it only needs time though.
It’s not wrong to let go, and it’s not wrong to take risks in love too, what’s wrong is when you let yourself suffer about a wrong reason. That’s so mean. Let go when you need to. The pain is there but it’s not gonna be forever. Trust your heart to heal.